Balancing the Bag: 5 Tips for Keeping Your Game Sharp While Raising a Family

Summer is on the horizon—longer days, sunnier skies, and more chances to hit the course. For many golfers, it’s the time of year when the competitive itch returns and the desire to improve intensifies. But for those of us with young families, including myself with a toddler at home and a new baby on the way, the reality is this: time is no longer a luxury—it’s a calculated asset.

Golf is more than a game to me. It’s my passion, my career, and my lifelong teacher. But over the past few years, becoming a dad has been its own kind of master class—teaching me patience, flexibility, and a whole new level of time management. I know firsthand how challenging it can be to balance time on the course with the demands of work and family.

That’s why I want to share a few tips I’ve picked up—personally and professionally—for staying sharp on the course without sacrificing family life. Whether you’re a new parent, a working professional, or both, these strategies can help you make meaningful progress in your game without the guilt or overwhelm.

1. Quality Over Quantity: Be Intentional With Your Practice

When time is limited, it’s not about how long you practice—it’s about how well you use the time. Instead of a full range session, set a timer for 30 minutes and focus on just one area—your wedge distances, putting pace, or tempo drills. Eliminate distractions, set specific goals, and finish with a short review of what worked.

2. Use the “Hidden” Moments

You’d be surprised how much practice you can sneak in during everyday life. Keep a putter and a few balls in your office or living room. Work on your grip or mirror swing in the garage. Visualize your pre-shot routine before bed. These micro-practice moments may seem small, but they build confidence and muscle memory over time.

3. Include Your Kids When You Can

Not every trip to the course has to be solo. Bring your toddler to the putting green or have them ride in the cart while you chip a few balls. It's not always the most focused practice, but it builds great memories—and teaches them early about the game. Plus, it’s a fun way to bond without stepping away from golf completely.

4. Schedule Golf Like an Appointment

Just like you’d schedule a doctor visit or a work meeting, block time for golf in your calendar—and honor it. Even one or two intentional sessions a week can keep your swing in tune. Communicate with your partner ahead of time and offer to trade off time, so both of you get the recharge you need.

5. Let Go of Perfection—And Enjoy the Process

One of the biggest shifts for me as a parent and golfer has been letting go of the idea that every round or practice needs to be perfect. You might not get to grind at the range for hours, but you can still improve. Progress might be slower—but it’s still progress. Give yourself grace and enjoy the game for what it is: your outlet, your challenge, your reset.

As we head into summer, remember this: your best golf doesn’t have to come at the cost of your family life. With the right mindset and a few smart strategies, you can stay connected to the game you love while staying present with the people who matter most.

I’m excited (and a little nervous!) to step into this next chapter with two little ones in tow. I know my schedule’s about to get a lot tighter—but I also know the game of golf has prepared me for this kind of challenge. If you're looking to make the most of your golf game this season—even in the midst of a busy life—I’d love to help.

Reach out for a lesson or join one of our upcoming clinics. We’ll work together to keep your swing sharp—no matter how full your calendar gets.